The Real on Highlight Reels

2 Corinthians 11:14. And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.

If self love was the answer to everything, God wouldn't have described it as one of the signs of the times...

So how does this tie into highlight reels?

Simple...

Social media is the most convenient way to deceive people from anywhere.

In the virtual world of fast connections, and carefully curated personas, it’s easy to forget that real relationships take time....this includes friendships.

Anyone can find anyone online, send a request, study and use your vulnerabilities (depending on how much you share openly) to rope you into conversations and ultimately, emotional connections.

But character reveals itself over seasons—not selfies or carefully scripted narratives.

Truth doesn’t rush.

It doesn’t perform.

It has no agenda.

So slow down.

Take a step back.

Gather facts. Examine the facts. Do their words truly match their life offline?

How do you know?

Get to know people.

Not just by what they say or post—

but...by what time,

in person, proves.

And remember, if something feels off, you don’t need to explain yourself.

You don’t need a long list of reasons.

You’re allowed to say no just because your spirit says pause.

What’s truly meant for you won’t demand urgency or pressure.

Even in friendships.

It will come with peace, alignment, and room to breathe.

Trust the long game.

And remember—you’re not missing out when you’re protecting your peace.

My favorite people will tell you the ugly truth about themselves, no matter how it makes them look, because they value honesty over narrative, God over reputation and truth over everything. They aren't seeking control, they use their stories to help people through their own darkness.

That's real. That's what matters more than validation and instant gratification.

Time is precious, and we don't get it back.

Stay safe.

xo